Flipping through the pages of my diary one by one, a lot of thoughts came running into mind, of what had happened in the past, and what may be the jottings of the future. Looking back, u may never predict what had happened in the past is actually happening, and how the unknown future is like a special gift packed in a huge parcel, where one may have many thoughts n predictions of what it may be, and some will have their own wishes n desires of what they want it to be.
Sometimes when you ponder back, you’d suddenly realize of how beautiful Allah has planned our route to be, of how splendid our life would end up like, and those teeny weeny triftling details that actually implicitly yield big tremendous changes of our life.
During those good old happy nursery days, (okay, cut that one out, sometimes you hardly even remember those kiddoes at that moment)say, primary school. Yeah, their our lousy, dull schoolmates - so what?little do we realize that these schoolmates are the ones that are actually decorating the early pages of our life.
Next, their’s high school.Now, don’t get me wrong, but it’s this teenage period where ‘crush lists’ will appear, popular cute girls and handsome tough boys will be ranked, special deliveries n secret admirers will be the ‘hushes’ of the crowd, and then these so-called ’sweet couples’ will be the envy of each eye. One may be sad knowing that her crush is actually having n affair with someone else, n later there’d be news about two guys fighting over a cute, innocent girl, n then someone will be crying knowing that her ‘love’ is actually being fooled.
Yeah…sob sob sob…but when you think about it, it’s these sweet little happenings that will give us smiles and laughter everytime we think about it in the future.
Now we’re nearly grownups, and regardless of the fact of how young we still want to be, we still can’t run from those typical lousy questions, "nie dah bpunye ke blom nie?".N then we’d suddenly realize that our seniors are actually planning about being hitched, some already engaged, and those talks about how to be "isteri solehah n suami soleh" will be the big talks of the week.
Talking about relationships, believe me, there are many kinds of "ships" out there, some that end up good, some with a few ‘wobbles’ in the middle, but of course all will end up being paired. Want me to list a few…?
1. Far distance relationship. For me this is kinda safe coz u can prevent yourself from doing those "not-good-habits-you-know-what-i-mean" things. Of course sometimes you’d feel insecure n have those nasty feelings that perhaps something bad is happening out of your sight. But, in a way, this actually testifies your partners loyalty and sincereness, and if you really end up with that person after years of "jauh di mata dekat di hati" feelings, your heart will be blooming till it can bloom no more.
2.Short distance relationship. Hmmm…nothing much to talk about this one, except that there’d be dates n movies n dinner together…some couples do this nearly EVERY day or weekend…owh, n yeah not to forget those long, daily gayuts of "ape awak buat hari nie…?" repeated topics.
According to sms?
3.Some sms nearly every hour, some daily…they make it as a routine to ask every single thing that they do, n act of showing that they care.
4.Some, in the other hand, sms weekly, monthly, or on big occassions…usually these people are those that feel they are comfortable n confident with their partner, and some of them only give messages with tazkirah, hadith…a way of showing that they really mean what they mean, as in "saye x main2 dgn awk…".
N then there’s this guys stuff (as what my senior said - no offence guys, hehe).
5.There’s this groups of guys who are really mature, they are only jiwang at the moment of "ngorating the gurl" n then they’d really be silent, concentrate on their work n studies, n only start being jiwang after getting wedded. During those years, even if a queu is waiting to "masuk line", they’d say no n remember their "setia pada yg satu" ppl at heart.
6.There’s also a group which can never live without a girl clinging by their side or smsing n calling them everyday - these people are usually physically sweet, but usually they already have "ex’s" in their past. But don’t get me wrong, not all of them are like that. N of course it also goes to gurls who change boyfriends every 3 months.
7.owh…n yeah, not to forget, their are also those sweet couples who "saya cop awak…saya tunggu awak" kind, who don’t meet or contact, n wait till the real time comes. Usually this kind is always the "ana uhibbuki/ka lillah" type…speaking of which, makes me ask….does cinta before kahwin kerana Allah really exist…?
8.And that leads us to the last one…cinta after kahwin…usually due to matchmakings from parents, friends…or intai senyap2 n terus kahwin cepat2…hehe….
All in all, we’ll just pray to Allah and du’a that everything will go smooth sailing and end up good with barakah from Allah.
…"lelaki yang baik adalah untuk perempuan yang baik"…itu janji Allah.
So…which type of relationship do you prefer…?
